To bring you all up to speed on the past 2 years....
January 2009- Started "trying"
July- Noticed things were not "normal"
August - Met with regular Doctor
November-February- Clomid (stimulates ovulation)
January 2010-Hysterosalpingogram (tubes and uterus)
February- Referred to Fertility Specialist (Ben got all his parts checked)
Finally we were given a few answers to why we were having a difficult time conceiving. Turns out I have a difficult time ovulating on my own and Ben has a morphology problem (shape of the sperm). In English we are not good mating partners. Our doctor at RMA of Texas encouraged us to move to more aggressive treatment.
March- Colmid IUI (intra-uterine insemination) Negative pregnancy test
May- Comind IUI - negative pregnancy test
June- Laparoscopy (surgery to determine if I had endometriosis) which I didn't
June- Decided to go ahead with IVF (In-vetro fertilization)
October- Started IVF treatment
November- IVF transfer-negative pregnancy test
That brings the 2 years into view. Of course from there are many emotions to go along with every step of the way.